sorry ya'all!

I'm sorry about the long break between posts-I got really busy with school, and I didn't think anyone was reading it anyways. So in response to the request from Mormon Bachelor Pad, I'm back with another question.

When guys ask on dates...why do they do it? Here at BYU, of course, there's super pressure for girls to date and get married, so we freak out wondering what guys want from us because of this date. Are we wasting our energy? Should we worry about potentially leading a guy on from the very first date? or should we just relax and have fun, because any guy that will be hurt after one date is way too invested?